You’re probably familiar with the classic tell-tale signs someone is cheating on you. They’re more distant, the sex life is almost non-existent and they’re constantly making up excuses not to talk to you. However, some people are better at hiding their affair than others. They might have been cheating on you for a long time, but have gotten so good at it that you’ve not been able to spot it. Well, here are some pretty unusual ways to tell if your significant other is cheating on you. Believe us, they’ll miss out on at least a couple of these even if they’re as careful as one can be.
Listening to new music
Most of us don’t just start listening to new music out of nowhere. When you listen to a certain genre and/or band, you don’t really deviate from it. Sure you like to mix it up on occasion, but it’s nothing out of the ordinary. When you start spending significant time with someone else however, something interesting happens. You begin listening to each other’s music and it starts influencing your own music choices. If you partner suddenly starts listening to techno when you’re full aware they prefer rock and only listen to techno occasionally, something might be up. Investigate further but be subtle about it at first. Ask where they found out about that cool music they’re listening to. Don’t insult them by jumping to conclusions and accusing them of cheating. They may have heard it from a friend. Just a word of caution: don’t take their answer for granted but give them the benefit of the doubt.
Check the passenger seat
Okay so this one can be the result of many things, but if you’re certain your partner usually drives alone and doesn’t transport any passengers such as family or friends often, and you find the passenger seat has been adjusted, it’s time to get your hands dirty and do some digging.
Unusual phone calls
Is your partner’s phone buzzing late at night with messages and calls? Do they frequently take a call in the other room just so you don’t hear any of the conversation? Well, unfortunately, this is a pretty strong sign something fishy is going on. The best way to find out who they’ve been talking to is to use PeopleFinders to run background checks, and find out what they’ve been up to.
Check the car’s mileage
Here’s one thing your significant other can’t hide no matter how careful they are. Roughly, we all know how many miles we put on our vehicles annually. Check his mileage as reference now and keep track of it every month. If the numbers don’t add up confront them and ask them what it is that’s requiring them to drive so much. You might not like the answer though.
Cheating is the worst thing you can do to someone and the worst thing someone can do to you. It makes you feel horrible, almost as if something is wrong with you. Something which forced your partner to cheat. You have to remember though: they chose to cheat, not you. Don’t ever blame yourself.